tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post4547548835478590164..comments2023-05-22T07:30:37.623-06:00Comments on My Life of Footprints: Just Noticingdrakameshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14476407697557456408noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-43319836709132219102009-07-10T09:33:08.237-06:002009-07-10T09:33:08.237-06:00Oh boy. I always thought I was the odd one out too...Oh boy. I always thought I was the odd one out too, for not enjoying "dating" (AKA going out with guys). What a stress! And my sister was another of those that was all about it. Loved the boys and let them know it! My family & friends looked at me and asked what my problem was.<br /><br />And, can I add, "dating" girls...looking forward to spending time with someone...is alex dumashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02116984318148369609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-55490369954776062922009-07-10T08:46:31.378-06:002009-07-10T08:46:31.378-06:00This comment has been removed by the author.HappyOrganisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335633639616473197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-91183024893507611392009-07-10T08:43:21.352-06:002009-07-10T08:43:21.352-06:00you guys and your dating stories ;-P
(btw, I thi...you guys and your dating stories ;-P<br /><br />(btw, I think everyone has some anxiety about the potential kissing scene at the end of the date. whether you want it or not, there's plenty of fear and anxiety in all situations there [first dates anyway.. or something like that])<br /><br />you should do what I did and skip the dating and jump right into the making-out scene. now that'HappyOrganisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335633639616473197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-61959396610182767092009-07-10T00:08:32.860-06:002009-07-10T00:08:32.860-06:00ControllerOne and El Genio: I'm glad that som...ControllerOne and El Genio: I'm glad that someone else can relate! You guys are awesome. Thanks for understanding and letting me know I'm not alone.<br /><br />I know where you're both coming from! I dated mostly because my family thought it would be good for me. I have a sister just a year younger than me and she was all about the dating. I used to watch the clock all the time drakameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14476407697557456408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-71386146122004090612009-07-10T00:03:03.373-06:002009-07-10T00:03:03.373-06:00HAPPY: I'm not saying that this "missing ...HAPPY: I'm not saying that this "missing out" feeling is only applicable to people who are gay, or to only this situation. I'm not claiming exclusive rights.<br /><br />Let me use an example that is kind of extreme and quirky, but hopefully makes my point.<br /><br />I'm allergic to bananas. So let's say that for the first 25 years of my life, the only fruit salad thatdrakameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14476407697557456408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-71341040108760184892009-07-09T21:08:29.025-06:002009-07-09T21:08:29.025-06:00The dating thing was always rough for me too. I a...The dating thing was always rough for me too. I actually dated a lot in high school which is why all my old friends were shocked when they found out I was gay when we were all in our late 30s. Come on. Mormon male, not hideously ugly and never married? Anyway, a date for me meant (1) showing everyone I was straight, and (2) watching the clock waiting for the dang thing to end and worrying ControllerOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161975934417545717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-51939127609944457742009-07-09T20:54:50.982-06:002009-07-09T20:54:50.982-06:00Every date I ever went on in high school or colleg...Every date I ever went on in high school or college was because my friends strongly encouraged me to do so. For years I never understood how anyone could actually enjoy dating.El Geniohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02801064758712821345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-40456135001117263202009-07-09T20:03:23.975-06:002009-07-09T20:03:23.975-06:00you know, you all are not the only ones "miss...you know, you all are not the only ones "missing out" <br />what about everyone else. the single folks who can't find a date. the married folks whose husbands have pot-bellies and the neighbors look attractive. you do not have exclusive rights on "I wish I had, but I'm sad 'cause I can't" <br />again, a universal theme. Universal<br /><br />anyone want aHappyOrganisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335633639616473197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-57698364252609526132009-07-09T20:00:15.274-06:002009-07-09T20:00:15.274-06:00oh hell, we're All missing outoh hell, we're All missing outHappyOrganisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335633639616473197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-1352262548952880382009-07-09T19:59:21.574-06:002009-07-09T19:59:21.574-06:00I totally understand the "missing out on some...I totally understand the "missing out on something" feeling. I felt the same way a lot over the last few years, but during the last year especially. Why can't there be easy answers?ControllerOnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04161975934417545717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7239173469170530986.post-72599653988392025502009-07-09T17:07:48.836-06:002009-07-09T17:07:48.836-06:00I'm not panicked.I'm not panicked.HappyOrganisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12335633639616473197noreply@blogger.com