How would this be?
Someone I know was telling me that when his brother finally came out, his parents were ecstatic for him, because they had already assumed for awhile that he was gay. "Good for you," they said, "we know you'll be happier now."
When his sister got engaged to a Mormon, his parents called a family meeting to discuss it.
The "bad" and the "good" is really in how you perceive it.